| Source | Chicago Sun-Times |
|---|---|
| Original Load Date | Jan. 7, 2026, 8:01 a.m. |
| Last Updated | Jan. 7, 2026, 8:01 a.m. |
| Original URL | https://chicago.suntimes.com/dear-abby/2026/01/07/dearabby-today-dear-abby-couples-long-relationship-reaches-tipping-point |
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